Why bring the sexy back into your relationship, you may ask?
Today, it goes without saying that we are trying to juggle. As mothers, sisters, daughters, and nieces, we have roles that can sometimes greatly affect our time as lovers and wives. It’s a fine balancing act that we have to ensure that we help everyone’s life fall where they want it to be, But what about yours?
Do you find yourself stuck with many hats that you have to wear? I know I did.
And finally, something in your life suffers.
Something is usually the relationship you share with your partner, especially your sexual relationship.
With our busy lives, we often don’t take the time to take that deep breath and reflect on what we need as women. What do we need to feel feminine in a way that only we can create with our significant other?
I challenge you right now to stop what you are doing for the next 15 minutes, finish reading this article, and then take action. Don’t just read these great tips and then hope for the day you can use them. Today you have complete control over how you can bring the sexy back into your life.
Let me help you get the creative juices flowing with my top 5 tips for getting sexy back. At will, you can easily feel sexy:
Attack your senses with what makes you feel sexy. 2. 2. You and only you know what makes you feel sexy. Sexy is a state of mind and feeling that only you know when it occurs. When you feel sexy, you fully radiate that emotion, and every pore in your body screams it.
That is the beginning, and everything else will fall into place.
Maybe it’s the scent of your favorite perfume that blows gently and seductively into your nostrils. Perhaps it’s just the raunchy, playful underwear that you can feel close to your skin, that you’re wearing underneath your work clothes. Maybe it’s the tune of the melody that gets you into the right groove… listen to those seductive beats and rhythms.
Is it credible to say that a handful of almonds or a handful of avocado to taste would be more than a scientific aphrodisiac?
It can even be as simple as taking a photo of you and your loved one immediately after throwing away the passion and seeing this photo to take you back to that place and time.
- Experiment with flirtatious behavior with your partner.
Now that you’re feeling sexy let’s step it up a bit more. If you have neglected the love of your life, it would be a pleasant surprise to be a little more enjoyable and suggestive. When your partner discovers that the jungle drums are beating, their initial reaction will help you get your sexy back. Send an email, leave a “post” on the bathroom mirror, leave a note in their wallet, or stuff your pants into one of their pockets.
3. Make all your important lists.
Whether they are listed in your appointment book, diary, excel spreadsheet, cell phone, blackberry, or even a password-protected document, you need to write a list of what is sexy to you. The goal of this list is to remind you, or even ask you, how you can quickly and easily restore sexy to your list, bullet-by-point.
As a woman, I know that different days bring different emotions. Make your list adapt to the day, and even if you have a list of 50–100 things, make sure you have a top 10 that will make you feel and remember the sexy woman you are in a few minutes.
- Allow you to define your sexiness, and only you.
It’s all too easy to ask someone for advice to clarify or confirm that you’re hot. In most cases, we’ll leave it to someone we love to give us this type of feedback, and I’m afraid that’s not right.
Take a big, big, permanent marker and cross it off the list now!
You are the only one in control of your sexy meter. Any other attention that reinforces and reinforces what you already know is a bonus.
- ‘Call in the cavalry’ for that special occasion.
Our memories are incredible tools, and we often forget to be remembered as a couple.
Remember to take the time to reminisce and reflect on the old days, when you first met, and all the major warm-fuzzy milestones you’ve been through in your relationship.
Take the time to have a little of your time. Ask family and friends to supervise children if you have them. On the weekends, invite your roommate to sleep with someone else. Solicit assistance from friends, colleagues, family, neighbors, and anyone else you can think of to ensure that you have an amazing moment at least once every 12 weeks, completely uninterrupted by the world.
If you’re looking for 500 more valuable and secretive tips, I highly recommend that you check out how I can bring sex back into my life and relationships.